Perfectly -imperfect


Everyone has their own kind of love language ranging from physical touch to words of affirmation it's different for everyone. This is the way in which we express our love frequently.
My love language according to me is physical touch and roasting.If I feel comfortable around you I will make it a point to atleast roast you once.Relationships are complex and have enormous emotions into them. Everyone's relationship is different and we should accept the fact.There can't be any relationship considered as ideal.
My sibling and I have always had a chaotic bond starting from being worst rivals to being this close.Never did I ever think of it that way.I remember how as a kid I used her lap several times to sleep on the swing.That was one of the special memories we still share.Then there was the one where we roamed around carrying an umbrella even when the rain had stopped,and then there was the time when we made a house out of the cloth drying stand. I had a lot of fun as a child.

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One of the pros of having a sibling is come what may they are there to complete our projects and art books. Almost everytime I slide the task towards my sister at the last minute. I have a few tricks as well, annoy her limitlessly by asking doubts and eventually she will take it and do it for you. Honestly I never thought that we would turn out to be this close. We used to have fights on a  regular basis. From sweaty fights to blood and breaking a chair we've literally done all of that . I had assumed that we would soon grow distant and never would be able to have a normal loving sibling relationship. But we created a really special bond, there  were times when we sat and chatted with each other till midnight. We don't fight that often now. We have started understanding each other .  Us watching filter copy videos together has turned into a ritual. From not wanting each other to wanting each other it has been a long journey.
There would be times when you would crib about your siblings but let them grow older and you would soon will have a most loving relationship with them.
Relationship are such a thing that if you want them to work out they are going to work. Tags are not necessary in a relationship for example - with your maid, it doesn't have a specific tag right? but you still bond  in some or the other ways just like that. And with my sister, some quality time made us the best friends. Now I can openly share anything with her and she has become my best guide.
All I want to say is that relationships aren't meant to be perfect even though many times movies show us a perfect siblings bonding but that's not true. We still have our share of fights and arguments but at the end of the day we are still on their lap sitting on  the swing.
Thank you<3
Parnika

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  1. ArunJanuary 13, 2023 at 11:59 PM

    You make me laugh so much—I love how you hit the perfect tone and expression every time.

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